
Clarify values and wishes, support documents and conversations so everyone knows what matters to you.
What it covers:
• | Values exploration and preferred place of care |
• | Treatment preferences (non-medical facilitation) |
• | Who to involve; how to talk with family and care teams |
• | Signposting to legal resources and forms |
For loved ones navigating change, decision-making, and the emotional load of caring.
How I help:
• | Gentle coordination with hospice/teams (non-clinical) |
• | Rest breaks and bedside companionship |
• | Boundaries, roles, and simple checklists |
• | Early bereavement support and signposting |
Support when death is present but not imminent - because mortality touches all of us.
We might explore:
• | Fear of death and existential anxiety |
• | Anticipatory grief after diagnosis or big change |
• | Integrating loss; making meaning and finding ritual |
• | Gentle somatic settling and sound-based soothing |
Honouring a life through stories, letters, recordings, and keepsakes.
Options:
• | Guided reminiscence and story - gathering |
• | Legacy letters, audio messages, or "memory books" |
• | Ethical will support (values, blessings, wishes) |
• | Coordinating contributions from family and friends |
I sit bedside with those who are actively dying -steady, quiet presence, gentle guidance, and practical support so loved ones can rest and be close. I work alongside hospice and clinical teams.
What this can include
• | Calm, continuous vigil and bedside companionship |
• | Creating a sacred, peaceful space (music or poetry, soft light, candles, flowers, breath and silence), cleansing and blessing the space |
• | Simple words, prayers, or blessings in the person"s own tradition |
• | Gratitude and farewell moments, memory circles with family |
• | Legacy touches (letters, recordings, keepsakes) |
• | Rituals by request - co-created and shaped by your beliefs and consent. This may include breath / visualisation, psychopomp - style guidance, gentle chakra-closing, and sound support (soft drum/rattle/singing bowl) |
• | Gentle grief and letting-go rituals (letters and release, candle ceremonies, simple "sacred bundle" keepsakes) |